Not a new post,
Just to add on to my last post. Not very sure if the message was mis understood.
Kids should be brought up to be self-reliant , be it girl or boy.
Super-man does not exist in real life. They should not grow up with the false impression that some Saviour or fairy god mother will come some day and change their lives.
Thats what i was trying to say. Hope i made it clear now.