Thursday, April 17, 2014

Life - lets give life to our lives

1. Give meaning to your life!
Who are you? Why do you do what you do every day? Each of us lives in our own way, but we do not often ask why we do one thing over another. The purpose of your actions is to nourish your own well-being, since the meaning of your life is prodigal motivation, persistence, satisfaction and success...! If you are dissatisfied with your life, perhaps it is time to renew the meaning you give to your life by asking about your values, your goals, your activities. It will be a first step - very important - towards a sustainable well-being.

2. Enjoy the moment
It is convenient to give his life goals and to nourish the senses, but do not fall into imbalance. Sometimes we are drawn into the maelstrom of life without taking time to savor the chances we have. We all want to improve our lives, and dissatisfaction is watching us at every turn. If you have a lover, a job, good meals to eat and you do not fear for your safety, you are already a part of a very small percentage of people on earth for whom life flows in excellent conditions. This awareness will help you enjoy a bit of happiness, whose life gratifies you!

3. Become a catalyst for happiness!
Figuratively, a catalyst is a person who by his mere presence causes a reaction. Why not cause a positive reaction all around you? "There is nothing wrong in preferring happiness," said Albert Camus. By focusing on the positive aspects of your life, you will radiate to the point where others will feel right at your sole contact. An experiment to try!

4. Become your best friend(s)!
Sometimes, some stressful memories and twisted conclusions make us a good person in a bad company. We condemn, we affirm our faults, we let our fears run our lives. Instead of focusing on your weaknesses, you can better recognize your strengths and qualities. This attitude will help you make peace with yourself.

5. Stop brooding!
It is recognized that our thoughts greatly influence our mood and level of well-being. The thoughts and negative emotions attract negative emotions, thoughts and positive emotions attract positive emotions. Thus, in each situation, you can always choose the more positive dimensions. Life does not turn so bad after all!

6. Do not entertain your suffering today from yesterday!
The anxiety and negative thoughts does not relieve us of our sorrows of tomorrow: they withdraw our today’s strengths and pleasures! Living by staying focused on your past prevents you from moving forward. Because if your past is no guarantee of your present, your present, it is the guarantor of your future! You can practice to accept your grudges, your difficult experiences, your conflicts, your grief. In doing so, you turn the bitterness in satisfaction! The ability to accept relieve you from chains you attached yourself to your feet.

7. Be empathetic!
"Great opportunities to help others do occasionally occur, but small opportunities surround us every day," said author Sally Koch. Empathy is the ability to put ourselves in the shoes of others to become aware of their statements and their emotions. Empathy is the natural enemy of egocentricity, a disease that eats away at our society. Instead, therefore, defend your interests and point of view first and put yourself in the shoes of others. Understand that your friend is worried that she did not give you expression that you can possibly avoid a painful conflict. Without you deny yourself, think about what other people live. You sow the seeds that will help make our world a better place to live.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

my favourite inspirational quotes

People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing.  That’s why we recommend it daily. –Zig Ziglar

:-) on that note here is a small dose of motivation that will sure boost your morale. Have a nice day! 
  1. Life isn’t about getting and having, it’s about giving and being. –Kevin Kruse
  2. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. –Napoleon Hill
  3. Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. –Albert Einstein
  4. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.  –Robert Frost
  5. I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took any excuse. –Florence Nightingale
  6. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. –Wayne Gretzky
  7. I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. –Michael Jordan
  8. The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. –Amelia Earhart
  9. Every strike brings me closer to the next home run. –Babe Ruth
  10. Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. –W. Clement Stone
  11. The past is a ghost, the future a dream. All we ever have is now. –Bill Cosby
  12. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. –John Lennon
  13. We become what we think about. –Earl Nightingale
  14. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain
  15. Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. –Charles Swindoll
  16. The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any. –Alice Walker
  17. The mind is everything. What you think you become.  –Buddha
  18. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now. –Chinese Proverb
  19. An unexamined life is not worth living. –Socrates
  20. Eighty percent of success is showing up. –Woody Allen
  21. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. –Steve Jobs
  22. Winning isn’t everything, but wanting to win is. –Vince Lombardi
  23. I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions. –Stephen Covey
  24. Every child is an artist.  The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up. –Pablo Picasso
  25. You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. –Christopher Columbus
  26. I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. –Maya Angelou
  27. Either you run the day, or the day runs you. –Jim Rohn
  28. Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right. –Henry Ford
  29. The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. –Mark Twain
  30. Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.  Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. –Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  31. The best revenge is massive success. –Frank Sinatra
  32. People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing.  That’s why we recommend it daily. –Zig Ziglar
  33. Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. –Anais Nin
  34. If you hear a voice within you say “you cannot paint,” then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced. –Vincent Van Gogh
  35. There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing. –Aristotle
  36. Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. –Jesus
  37. The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be. –Ralph Waldo Emerson
  38. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  Live the life you have imagined. –Henry David Thoreau
  39. When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say, I used everything you gave me. –Erma Bombeck
  40. Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.  –Booker T. Washington
  41. Certain things catch your eye, but pursue only those that capture the heart. – Ancient Indian Proverb
  42. Believe you can and you’re halfway there. –Theodore Roosevelt
  43. Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. –George Addair
  44. We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. –Plato
  45. Teach thy tongue to say, “I do not know,” and thous shalt progress. –Maimonides
  46. Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. –Arthur Ashe
  47. When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life.  When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up.  I wrote down ‘happy’.  They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life. –John Lennon
  48. Fall seven times and stand up eight. –Japanese Proverb
  49. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. –Helen Keller
  50. Everything has beauty, but not everyone can see. –Confucius
  51. How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. –Anne Frank
  52. When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. –Lao Tzu
  53. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. –Maya Angelou
  54. Happiness is not something readymade.  It comes from your own actions. –Dalai Lama
  55. If you’re offered a seat on a rocket ship, don’t ask what seat! Just get on. –Sheryl Sandberg
  56. First, have a definite, clear practical ideal; a goal, an objective. Second, have the necessary means to achieve your ends; wisdom, money, materials, and methods. Third, adjust all your means to that end. –Aristotle
  57. If the wind will not serve, take to the oars. –Latin Proverb
  58. You can’t fall if you don’t climb.  But there’s no joy in living your whole life on the ground. –Unknown
  59. We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained. –Marie Curie
  60. Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears. –Les Brown
  61. Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. –Joshua J. Marine
  62. If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. –Booker T. Washington
  63. I have been impressed with the urgency of doing. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we must do. –Leonardo da Vinci
  64. Limitations live only in our minds.  But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless. –Jamie Paolinetti
  65. You take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one to blame. –Erica Jong
  66. What’s money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do. –Bob Dylan
  67. I didn’t fail the test. I just found 100 ways to do it wrong. –Benjamin Franklin
  68. In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. –Bill Cosby
  69. A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new. – Albert Einstein
  70. The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it. –Chinese Proverb
  71. There are no traffic jams along the extra mile. –Roger Staubach
  72. It is never too late to be what you might have been. –George Eliot
  73. You become what you believe. –Oprah Winfrey
  74. I would rather die of passion than of boredom. –Vincent van Gogh
  75. A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms when his hands are empty. –Unknown
  76. It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves, that will make them successful human beings.  –Ann Landers
  77. If you want your children to turn out well, spend twice as much time with them, and half as much money. –Abigail Van Buren
  78. Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs. –Farrah Gray
  79. The battles that count aren’t the ones for gold medals. The struggles within yourself–the invisible battles inside all of us–that’s where it’s at. –Jesse Owens
  80. Education costs money.  But then so does ignorance. –Sir Claus Moser
  81. I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear. –Rosa Parks
  82. It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. –Confucius
  83. If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough. –Oprah Winfrey
  84. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. –Dalai Lama
  85. You can’t use up creativity.  The more you use, the more you have. –Maya Angelou
  86. Dream big and dare to fail. –Norman Vaughan
  87. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. –Martin Luther King Jr.
  88. Do what you can, where you are, with what you have. –Teddy Roosevelt
  89. If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. –Tony Robbins
  90. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning. –Gloria Steinem
  91. It’s your place in the world; it’s your life. Go on and do all you can with it, and make it the life you want to live. –Mae Jemison
  92. You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. –Beverly Sills
  93. Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. –Eleanor Roosevelt
  94. Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be. –Grandma Moses
  95. The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. –Ayn Rand
  96. When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. –Henry Ford
  97. It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years. –Abraham Lincoln
  98. Change your thoughts and you change your world. –Norman Vincent Peale
  99. Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. –Benjamin Franklin
  100. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says, “I’m possible!” –Audrey Hepburn
  101. The only way to do great work is to love what you do. –Steve Jobs
  102. If you can dream it, you can achieve it. –Zig Ziglar

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

well, experimenting a little bit with life.

had always lived "full of life" - loud and bold... for a change tonning down. May be its the age ;-)

Cleared off lots of stuff, people,prejudices,words and memories - required and not required.
Keeping absolutely minimal/basic.

It feels very different. But i am seeing a serenity of no measures.
I thought i will regret... but no,

Ofcourse i miss a lot of people and comforts
but i now see myself better, i found a new person called myself
who was always waiting for my time but never received attention

To be surrounded by stuff and friends and tasks and feeling all important is good
but zenning it all also feels good

My people will always find a way to me and so is my destiny..
Emptied my cup & in no hurry to ever fill it up

Read an article, thought good to share

High Achievers

By Yahoo! India Finance | CareerBuilder – Wed 26 Mar, 2014 3:30 PM IST

All of us work hard, but only the crème-de-la-crème of us make for the high-achievers. The difference between an achiever and a high-achiever is not too much. Just that the high-achievers know when to strike, their timing is just about right when it comes to promoting their achiever tag. Inspite of doing just the right hardwork, high-achievers clinch a better deal.

Enlisted below are the things which high-achievers do well to upgrade into this category-

Unworthy Procrastination

While the high-achievers follow the Nike way and just do it, the achievers just look for openings. They try to rationalize the things. If you keep thinking, you would never find a way to do it. You would just keep dwelling under it, without much luck or vigour to complete it. The go-getter attitude is missing in you and that is something which is heartily present in the high-achievers.


The high-achievers create opportunities for themselves. Literally, create them. One such person is Bill Gates, who went about asserting that there is market for computer softwares. He believed, he conquered and he created. That’s how stylishly the high-achievers do it. It may seem like a piece of cake but all of this does not come without hardwork, which is second nature for the high-achievers.

Regimental and Methodical

The gang of high-achievers is filled with people who like to keep their eye on the goal. They are just to consumed by it and hence make it a life purpose. The dedication and commitment is substantiated by the regimental quality of the schedule they prepare for themselves to follow regularly, without getting bored of it. It is all about accepting pain and making it your friend. They gratify themselves by smaller temporary joys to make sure they aren’t bored of their routine.


High-achievers prefer minimalistic living. They are passionate followers of simplicity and well in that virtue. The more uncluttered the space and mind, the better you concentrate. High-achievers capitalize on this, their surroundings and their personal belongings are just optimum. They like de-cluttering and keeping the things as simple as possible so that they can concentrate on the bigger project at hand.

Rejecting Rejection

The breed of high-achievers have a deep belief in what they do. They learn from their experiences, they are inquisitive to no more and even when they fail they don’t succumb to failure. They get up and redo it again. Their tenacity and their perseverance is unparalleled. The idea of being there for your goal and keep going is something that is inherent quality of their soul. Besides this, they take dark patches and tough people in their stride and make sure they put their best foot forward at each step they take.

Having set the rules too clear, you should now be on your way to become one of the coolest ever high-achievers in the world, shouldn’t you? As they say, never stop dreaming!